The Voice of Truth
This is Aryan, and lately I've realized a lot of things about where I went wrong. Janhavi said on a voice note... "Kab iss aadmi ko akal aayegi, kab dimaag se sochega.."
She said I'm not a responsible man. Today I watched a podcast where a lot of the same things were repeated about how self control is important.
And I realized today how I, being an adult, behaved like a teenager with my irresponsible actions. I was impulsive... or in other words, I lacked a lot of self control.
The Path to Self-Control
I need to build self control in me regarding my money, regarding my anger, emotions, food and desire for sex. These aspects of my life have been ruling over me, when I should be the one in control.
I need to be a man with self control, the one who takes responsibility of his actions and emotions to achieve his long term goals.
A Guiding Light
In pursuit of fulfilling dreams quickly, I lost self control and ran to gain fast money. I'm gaining all of these incredible perspectives about myself all because of one incredible woman/girl I have in my life. She pinpointed my exact mistake.
Vision for the Future
I need to change myself completely if I have to achieve my long term goals and visions for life - which is to live a wealthy life with freedom - where my family and my people never have to struggle with money. We should enjoy our relationships, health and our freedom. Relationships being the most important out of the three.
Breaking the Pattern
I was in a destructive pattern. I did actions without thinking. I lacked self control, which now I have to gain. Think before doing, control yourself Aryan.